Wednesday, August 27, 2014

approaching 55 yrs old , women and sex

you make me smile, laugh and cry  a little with your last email. you are validating me in so many ways. last night i thought, going back to shortly after we met, everyone in the community abandoned me and i asked you, as i cried, please help me. as i cry now you are a blessing from god. ....everyone left me for dead but you until i met ...... 

I purposely walk the way i do to prove a point i wanted to do for so long. that you can look and walk like a model and have the brains of a scientist and senior VP. although my thought process was at the being of hormones i should be able to strip on Friday and saturday and be a senior VP Monday-Friday. i think i have seen far too many men belittle women, since i walked amongst them i heard what they really thought of us, and this made me more determined then ever to prove them wrong and in all honesty put them in their place.

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also yesterday as usual i put myself out there and i met the guy that was impressed with my football knowledge which ends at 2010. I thought real women don't like football but Penn State is back and soon we will be off of probation lol.  also i met this guy on the train and he was bragging about he worked for the NSA and dropped MIT in the conversation. the trump card i have for men they cannot beat is I am a Marine.  I have found that men are focused, most men, on their toys and accomplishments and conquest of women etc, which i detest, and whereas so many women are into the emotional part of friendships.

also the age of 55 yrs old is almost upon me and i think i have accomplished between nothing and very little. i wanted to be a successful professional woman but now with all the fixings, sorry that description.  i also want a wife and child and to have everything i don't have now.... home, car, and someone to cook for as i cry. so with my goals in my mind i have done nothing in this life as i enter my senior yrs. i cannot even say i am going to be 55 yrs old.when my case manager brought it up yesterday i cried and cried... i told her i don't want to talk about it. it is on my mind all the time as i beg for anyone to help with my surgery. i am still clawing and scratching to be me where i started at the age of 7 yrs old. so 1/2 century later i am still .......

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I thought i had a omen from god, or satan most likely, when i found a flyer for several strip clubs in portland on my run. i thought god , not really, was telling me to go and strip because i have no friends and god is not real.  so i pinned the flyer on my wall. i then looked up lesbian strip clubs in Portland and i found that in Oregon City there is a lesbian strip club for women. i thought i need to go there and i would be embraced by all? also i looked up how much a strip pole was and it is 489.00 that is portable. i feel  like a lost soul and let's go for broke again and the hell with god and everyone around, hence the email the other day.

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i am caught between two worlds, one that will accept with the condition of selling my body and soul and other that is so rewarding and one of love. but the one of love is one where i cannot hold one person. as the days go by i am leaning more and more towards the strip clubs but in my heart it is different.

i thought today about women which happens all day long. then i thought i love a hot dyke who would ravish my body and make me feel like a real woman. i have been looked up and down by a few in Portland. plus i was given card blanche at Hamburger Mary's by a dyke that was a bartender. but then i looked in my heart and i said given a choice i would take a woman that would hold me and make me feel warm inside.

.... might be right a healing is going on because i have noticed that the very little things that use to bother me simply don't anymore. i mean outside of surgery. this is a huge improvement over the last few decades.  but if the wrong woman approaches me and offers sex I cannot refuse i have longed for a woman to love me as  woman since my ex wife rejected me as a woman over 20 yrs ago.

i am seeking true love but sex may prevail.

thank you

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