personally if you have questions about anything I love the chance to change misconceptions and just love to share my story but i am not an expert..... the sales woman is alive and well over here and i love to close a sale ..... so please ask me anything you like...... let's break some egg shells......
just thought i would share what trans people think from another part of the world and maybe what some think in general...
i do say that asking me if i show you some pictures before is too painful for me. that would be a painful question but knowing me in the moment i might show you my marine pic ........ one girl responded , and this hurt as i cry so bad, you were handsome and another girl said i would have .... basically sex with that 17 y o marine. that was too crude for me and that was not fun.
i am more than willing to talk but i expect respect ...... not too hard you would think but sometimes people's perception of what you should be clouds their judgements and their harsh remarks.....
here it the link
http://www.buzzfeed.com/patricksmith/trans-people-respond-to-the-most-annoying-questions-they-get
Saturday, May 23, 2015
Monday, May 11, 2015
trans Girl arrested for exposing her breast ; the prison response and my prospective and the voice of reason
update: this incident happened in jul 2013 per GA website and she was charged with indecent exposure and
disorderly conduct....on 4-7-13 at 1 am
this is my problem! as some people think i am like her. i did pick out of the article some irony to me because in the marines i was called " thing, in boot camp , and it was could be an endearing thing in the marines to be called " my n--- or what is up my brother " and i am sure this was not the case while she was in jail . also i am sure in this case it is totally possible her race could have played a role in her total experience too. What is not mentioned is what the race of the men using the slurs. however that being said the warden used the term " them" to refer to her as transgendered woman.
but basically i would never be in this
position because i do not expose my breast in public nor would any of
my friends who I have in my life. so in my opinion there are multiple
issues going on here. ( wow that sounds like a therapist ) but sincerely
she put herself in a position to bring across a social issue and at the
last minute the issue of transgender was the key issue out of all of
this ? then the warden treated her like a man.....she was the one that
exposed her breast in public and the situation was compounded by the
warden and society's definition of what is and is not a woman. disorderly conduct....on 4-7-13 at 1 am
this is my problem! as some people think i am like her. i did pick out of the article some irony to me because in the marines i was called " thing, in boot camp , and it was could be an endearing thing in the marines to be called " my n--- or what is up my brother " and i am sure this was not the case while she was in jail . also i am sure in this case it is totally possible her race could have played a role in her total experience too. What is not mentioned is what the race of the men using the slurs. however that being said the warden used the term " them" to refer to her as transgendered woman.
Rachel
WATCH: Transgender Woman Arrested for Exposing Breasts, Jailed With Men
Ashley Del Valle is a transgender woman from New York who was arrested
in Georgia for indecent exposure after she allegedly showed her breasts,
but then was housed in an all-male jail.
BY Sunnivie Brydum
April 17 2013 5:52 PM ET
Del Valle was alone in various cells in the men's ward for three days before her family posted her $3,500 bail. She told WSAV that she often felt unsafe, and claims that deputies repeatedly referred to her as "thing," "brotha," and "nigga."
"I just felt like I wasn't being treated like a human being," said Del Valle, who was assigned male at birth, but has lived as a woman for more than 20 years, and legally changed her name in 2002.
The chief deputy at the jail says his employees followed existing protocol to keep Del Valle in a private cell, but did admit to misgendering her.
"First off, Ashley is still a man," chief deputy Roy Harris told GA Voice. "I think he's had some surgery, breast implants. But technically he is still a male which poses a problem. We do have a policy in place. Typically we put them in isolation."
Zack Ford at ThinkProgress LGBT notes that while housing transgender people in isolation is generally standard prison protocol, such isolation can be punishment in and of itself.
"Though Del Valle was kept in a private cell, the fact that she was still surrounded by men still made her vulnerable to harassment," writes Ford. "An isolation cell can also be a different form of torture, depriving an individual of any social contact. Whatever transgender policy the jail supposedly has, misgendering her and endangering her in such ways did not prioritize her safety nor convey even the most basic respect for her identity."
Del Valle is considering legal action, which might have some weight, especially given that Del Valle was arrested for a charge that can only be committed by a woman — since a man exposing his nipples does not qualify as indecent exposure — but then jailed as a man. Del Valle also contests the claim that she exposed herself at all; she told WSAV says she was just wearing a sheer top, and says she did not argue with the arresting officer, despite also being charged with disorderly conduct.
Watch the report from WSAV below, complete with problematic language including the segment's title, "Incarcerating the Transgendered", and language from the reporter, who calls Del Valle "a transgender."
Saturday, May 2, 2015
Kim on Bruce Jenner coming out and comments that are good and hurtful
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QYIAVQnWvnM&index=174&list=PL6x4FKqQ2ZB1Ln9mQHCb1XsDXXkVqDuPf
the understanding by some but the ignorance by so many is so hurtful!! yet one person can understand being gay yet " getting your penis cut off is mental illness." not so long ago people stated that homosexuality was a mental illness. at least from Bruce and others like me putting our stories out there we know what you really think of us, some sad but so many see us as human beings and thank you
rachel
the understanding by some but the ignorance by so many is so hurtful!! yet one person can understand being gay yet " getting your penis cut off is mental illness." not so long ago people stated that homosexuality was a mental illness. at least from Bruce and others like me putting our stories out there we know what you really think of us, some sad but so many see us as human beings and thank you
rachel
Friday, May 1, 2015
marine corps times comments on murdered trans girl by a US marine
as a marine ... the only rachel would be a dead rachel even in 2015....... scary but not shocked to me!!!
the reference to the trans girl as " it and homo" .. nothing has changed.....
the reference to the trans girl as " it and homo" .. nothing has changed.....
In
1985, a Marine was charged with DWI and murder in Hiroshima
Japan.
Just as in Olongapo, charges were filed and the Marine was found guilty of his
charges. He wasn't released to the
Japanese
authorities until after his court martial.
STAY
TUNED FOR FURTHER DEVELOPMENTS!
If
marines would listen to there libo briefs. Human trafficking is not legal or
right. (It didn't say that they paid for company but come on you know they
did). Leaving you libo buddy is never okay. Drinking large amounts at the age
of 19 isn't okay either. What he did was the result of a bunch of bad choices
that he must now face the consequences.
Would
you be like "oh you have a penis too, look at it its so cute and
tiny!" Its cool no problem let me just kiss goodbye the $ and time I was
putting in to gettin laid cuz ya kno its so easy to get laid in the middle of
the damn ocean! Ok fine maybe it didnt deserve to die for its treachery but if
he was a boxer surely he could have just dotted its eye! Ijs
The
whole thing is terrible and they need to bring him back to serve his time in
the US
not a 3rd world country! I really think it was all in a rage
Justice
been served..regardless,of what transpired,one cannot take another human life
to satisfy his anger.being a Marine means enough trouble already.they've built
such reputation in any port of being on the bad side..one bad seed reflects the
good ones..
Coming
from a Marine he deserved to be charged he's not a victim you don't kill
somebody just Bc they are transgender he deserves a bad conduct discharge along
with life without parole we will see what he gets
If
100 Marines were put in the same situation,99 would have had sex with him/her
and one would have done what he did. The he/she just picked the one wrong
Marine.
Edited out pic namae bc it was sexual in
nature
This is a justifiable homicide. You can't
wilfully deceive others pretending to be a woman, when you're a man.
I hope that he'll exonerated for his actions, this is self defense. Semper Fi!
I hope that he'll exonerated for his actions, this is self defense. Semper Fi!
Maybe
he was homo too
Not
a hate crime. Just murder. Tired of 'special groups'
It's
justifiable homicide, no murder here.
Chris
porter you sir are simply a …… moron plain and simple
Killing
a human being in cold blood is a vile crime no matter what the gender, whether
male, female, or trans. Murder is murder and he should not be let off simply
because it was "a crime of passion" because he saw a penis. Marines
are better than this.
shut-up
BOOT!!!!
Youre
whats wrong with the Marine Corps Michael. Boot indeed. I probably have more
glitter than you.
Youre
an idiot, Army man. No homicide is justifiable unless youre defending your
family.
Why
cant this soldier say he did not consent to having sexual relations with a man
and claim it as attempted rape? Just like the numerous cases where a rapist has
come into a victim's home at night in the dark and pretended to be the victim's
husband. The wife consented thinking it was the husband but upon finding out
the intruder was not actually the husband, it is defined as rape. If that woman
would in turn pull a weapon and kill the imposter, the media would be defending
her to the fullest.
Works
at Activist
Bring
Him back home do not leave Him behind.
Free
the Marine, he'd suffered and traumatized from this ordeal. This is a good and
justifiable killing. You can't play with people's lives pretending to be
something you're not.
These
people play themselves as women think leading a man on is some kind of sick
game. Its not. They should disclose it right of the bat. If someone did that to
me when I was a teen would have got there ass beat too. Its not funny.
Transgender people are sick.
This
is justifiable homicide, the sick thing got what he deserves, death!
Damn out of order and deceitful, trying to rape our Marine.
They need to free up the Marine now.
Damn out of order and deceitful, trying to rape our Marine.
They need to free up the Marine now.
The
marine was a victim of the most despicable deception that can be perpetrated
upon a masculine male. The transvestite initiated this chain of events. The
marine's conduct was an emotional reaction, not some kind of premeditated hate
act.
I
would stongly agree. they think it's funny but its not.
Oh
grow up. When did the marines become so naive and ignorant about the world?
The
marine is a little bitch. If someone else's sexuality is enough to make him
MURDER someone, he not a man. In fact, I question your manhood, D David Haven.
Are you a little bitch too?
I
have a kneejerk reaction that makes me punch bigots. I assume you'll accept
that as a natural, uncontrollable emotional response if we ever cross paths.
Those
of you that think this was justified need to seek psychiatric help.
Here's how is SHOULD have gone down; "Oh, you have a penis? That's not what I'm into and I'm sorry I did not pick up on that. Good night."
Here's how is SHOULD have gone down; "Oh, you have a penis? That's not what I'm into and I'm sorry I did not pick up on that. Good night."
This
is a justifiable homicide. You can't wilfully deceive others pretending to be a
woman, when you're a man you deserve to be killed immediately.
Maybe
this wouldnt have happened if he would have told the marine his situation. That
could drive a man temporarly insane. If it was me,the out come would be the
same besides the dragging to the bathroom.
Then
you are a sick idiot.
Crime
of passion plain and simple.
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